tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5505367520831684287.post1500190895540523758..comments2023-08-17T13:33:14.032-04:00Comments on Not Zen: Not Zen 169: Many Last ChancesSecret Hippiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04268744646117371096noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5505367520831684287.post-44903234144062634722015-09-18T14:24:37.258-04:002015-09-18T14:24:37.258-04:00Even for those who don't say it, I hope everyo...Even for those who don't say it, I hope everyone understands by behavior. You are certainly loved and you are loving. Even if you never said a word, your family would know. Secret Hippiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04268744646117371096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5505367520831684287.post-55254600959439723142015-08-30T12:10:33.922-04:002015-08-30T12:10:33.922-04:00Regrets weigh so heavy...especially those things w...Regrets weigh so heavy...especially those things we didn't say or didn't do when we had the chance. Or those things we turn over and over in our heads until we convince ourselves there must have been something we could have done differently. Acceptance is realizing that worrying about the "could haves" or "should haves" only brings stress...time cannot be changed...we cannot undue the things that have been left undone. <br /><br />The last thing my Mother said to me was, "I love you, no, I really love you." I thought it was strange at the time the way she was so clear and looked me in the eye and held on to me tight but now I realize she knew...she knew those were the last words she would say to me. <br /><br />The last words I said to her was, "I love you too." And in the end if we know we are loved and loved others in return then I guess there can be no regrets. Ruinwen Dagoriellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17838849121945131543noreply@blogger.com